Who I Work With
Every bond has a beginning, a middle, and sometimes an ending.
The bond doesn’t dissolve just because the relationship changes, whether it’s with a partner, an adult child, the person you co-parent with, a pet who was family, or the relationship you have with yourself. I work with attachment through every stage, using Emotionally Focused and Focusing-Oriented methods.
People-pleasing & relationship patterns
You know what everyone else needs before you know what you need. Even your own grief gets put last. We work with the attachment underneath, so there’s finally room for you.
Learn moreLife after a divorce
Separation and divorce dissolve a marriage — but not the attachment it was built on. The grief, the protest, the ache at odd hours is the part no one prepares you for, and the part I work with.
Learn moreBreakup grief
A breakup is grief, not just disappointment — the loss of an attachment, even when leaving was the right call. On why you still reach for them, and how to let yourself feel it.
Learn morePet loss
Losing a pet is a real loss — the grief of a daily, unconditional bond, made lonelier by a world that calls it "just a pet." Including the guilt no one prepares you for.
Learn moreRepair with an adult child
The parent–child bond doesn’t expire when a child grows up, and even a strained or distant relationship can often be repaired. Whether the rupture was loud or the closeness quietly faded, there’s usually still a way back to each other.
Learn moreCo-parenting
You're no longer partners — but you're still your child's coordinated team, across two households. The custody agreement sets the schedule; this is about building the working relationship it can't create.
Learn moreCouples therapy
The same fight, a growing distance, a bond that feels harder to reach. Emotionally Focused couples therapy helps you step out of the cycle and find each other again.
Learn moreWhat this work is not
This is clinical therapy, not a legal or forensic service. I don’t conduct custody evaluations, serve as an expert witness, or write letters intended for use in a custody proceeding. If your situation calls for that, I’ll say so early and help you find the right kind of professional.
Not sure which of these fits?
Reach out for a complimentary 15-minute phone or Zoom consultation. We’ll figure out together where the work should start — individually, with your child, or between co-parents — and if I’m not the right fit, I’ll do my best to point you in the right direction.
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